I’m in NY. My grandfather came here in 1906, unskilled labor, had 8 kids, wife didn’t work, had no medical insurance.
My father, married around 1937, skilled labor had 5 kids wife didn’t work, had no medical insurance.
I was married in 1965, entry level labor at that time, had 2 kids and wife didn’t work, had no medical insurance. My wife entered the workforce after 1975.