If he looks like a “whipped dog”, it may be because he is so deeply saddened by all the chances he gave to so many to do the right thing, and they didn’t.
That he has had so many “friends” abandon him can’t make for happiness in his heart.
Now, he has to play genuine “hard ball”, with the military option being the only one left.
What kind of expression would you have him wear?
Please quit whimpering.
It is not over.