Loading ...There are support groups that help survivors get through a tragic event.
What happens to many even if it may seem irrational to others blame themselves or have survivors guilt. They can’t get past it and replay it in their mind over and over or imagine a different scenario that could of prevented it.
They also can immerse themselves in their work as you did as a sort of denial, and escape coping mechanism. As my younger brother said after losing his wife over a sudden illness “ you never think it’s going to happen to you.”
I think the woman who told you a message will come to you in a song was spiritual and realized that even though you were dealing with this alone and going through survivors guilt you may still have but the pain gets a little easier in time. All that comes from caring for someone who you thought you’d spend your life with until then, giving you a sense of helplessness. That even though you immersed yourself in necessary work you were not alone, she would reach out to you. In a song.
Silverngold
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